If we want to find out what is in our unconscious that is detrimentally affecting us, we have only to look at the mirror which is our life. How do we relate to all the various members of our family? Are we in a loving relationship or what patterns and emotions have emerged in our relationship? How do we treat and react to money? Are we doing the lifework that we are here to do? What is our health like? How do we relate to our bodies? All these areas will give us invaluable information about what needs to clear.