If the facts don't fit the theory, change the facts. This, too, will pass. The smaller your reality, the more convinced you are that you know everything. The past has no power over the present moment. The smaller your reality, the more convinced you are that you know everything...
The most important moment of your life is now. The most important person in your life is the one you are with now, and the most important activity in your life is the one you are involved with now.